HAPPILY EVER AFTER

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We all get tired of  our lives,we want to experience something completely different.You don't like your job anymore,you feel your friends are not as exciting,your life is boring,you don't seem to have time for yourself anymore and honestly you don't understand whats going on in your life.Though sometimes you might ask someone what exactly they want but they don't know they just say I want to be happy.
Everybody wants to be happy;Being happy is freedom from suffering, flourishing, well-being, joy, prosperity, and pleasure,it doesn't mean everything's perfect; it just means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.

For one to have true happiness and live happily,one must love themselves first.Stop complaining about the imperfections,about all that is going wrong .About how you need a better house than the one you are living in,how you feel you are earning less money for your expertise.Bear in mind someone else is hoping to get a job like yours and live in a house like the one you have and do not like.Stop concentrating on your negatives rather on your positives.Be confident and have a high self esteem ,love yourself unconditionally because you are amazing.

Also learn to do things for yourself and not what other people would want you to do,or think of you.Choose your friends wisely,those who don't judge you no matter what you do.Don't become friends with people who don't like you because then you will make things more difficult for you, always trying to impress that person.This is very tasking and energy consuming.I'm sure you all have better things to do that become a people pleaser as your occupation.
Love others and you will also be loved,Treat others as you would like to be treated. This will make you feel better about yourself. Trust me,and live life to the fullest. Never ever take any thing or any one for granted.

We always complain how unhappy we are yet we aare so uptight and it ccould take the world to make you smile "Smile its cheap medicine".Make everything fun ,no matter what you are doing it can be fun. Whether you are paying your bills or cleaning up the bathroom. Make a joke about it. It can be fun and funny.Live life for all it's worth because as sad as it is you are not promised tomorrow today.
My favourite way to cheer me up is to dance,its theurapeutic.

Dance and even if you have no good reason to do it,just move you can't dance and stay uptight.