DON'T LET ANYONE DEFINE YOU

We will always encounter critics along our journey through life. People who never think that you ever do anything right. In all our relationships we have this kind of people.

It is sad when some people cannot live their dream because someone told them you can’t do it or they just asked "are you sure you can do it" and automatically you start doubting yourself. Let no one tell you who you are or what you are or what you want to do because its your freaking life.

I think its important to make decisions in your life and do whatever you want to do and not listening to what people are telling you to do or what you think they want to hear. And because of what you have been listening to you always have some little dark angel sitting on your shoulder telling you what to do and asking you why are you doing this. Telling you people will think or say you are stupid, dumb, lazy, old-fashioned blah blah blah.

My mum always asks who are this people, who cares about the people.... jeez 
For instance, I recently changed my hair and got red hair, so everyone keeps asking why did you change your hair, why red, why, why, why.... WHY NOT! Should there be a reason for everything, I’m just living deal with it.
 
If you are the "smart" talker putting everyone down remember words can kill. Let everyone be.
No matter who you are, what you do, whom you with, just live your life; do not let anyone define you. Remember that people can only take from you what you allow. If you allow others to define who you are, you are giving them the power to dictate where your path will lead.


#Cindy